Star Wars, Pokemon, and the return from my extended vacation
Greetings! This blog has been quiet for a couple of weeks due to the fact that I’ve been on vacation since Nov. 21. I meant to hang an “On Vacation” sign here. But never got around to it. So apologies if it seems like I mysteriously vanished from this blog, from Twitter, and all the channels where I frequently babble.
But even though I tried to unplug, I still found myself using my various social networks, which made me realize how much they’ve become a part of my personal as well as my professional life. And I must say that in sharing a couple of fun events in my life, the experience was enhanced by the comments I received via Twitter and Facebook from my friends in my network. I felt it was social networking in the best sense of the phrase.
The first event involved what felt like an epic moment in my household: The first viewing of “Star Wars” with my children. I have two kids: Liam, who is about to turn six, and Kalian, who is 3.5 years old.

Liam and Kalian watch Star Wars for the first time.
In recent weeks, Liam has become obsessed with reading The Star Wars Storybook, a cheesy book that I got when the original Star Wars movie came out. The storybook tells a somewhat sanitized version of the movie, and includes lots of movie stills. What’s great about the storybook is that it must have been produced before the final edit of the movie, because includes several scenes that did not appear in the movie, including several scenes with Luke’s friend Biggs, who was all but erased from the movie. You can search YouTube and find Biggs’ deleted scenes. And they’re awful, by the way.
Also, the book ends by noting that now that the Death Star had been destroyed, the rebels had won, the empire had been defeated, and the old Republic had been restored. Um, nope. Turns out there were two more sequels.
Anyways, after weeks of begging by Liam, we finally relented and rented it. The geek part of me and the daddy part were, I think, maybe even more excited than the kids. I wanted to share my excitement, so I grabbed my BlackBerry and tweeted about watching the movie. That generated a few responses:
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htnguyen: @sjcobrien they are so lucky to be introduced to “Star Wars” at such an early age. but save em from “Attack of the Clones”
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mattmansfield: @sjcobrien That’s pretty dang cute. Hope Liam and Kalian like Star Wars!13 days ago · Reply · View Tweet
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techburgh: @sjcobrien truly a time to remember and savor.13 days ago · Reply · View Tweet
I liked that immediate gratification of sharing a special moment and getting some instant validation and feedback.
I was even more surprised, though, a week later, when I shared a parenting dilemma. Liam has just started kindergarten. And apparently, all the kids are totally obsessed with Pokemon. Now, I consider myself to be pretty savvy about pop culture. But as far as I knew, Pokemon was one of those fads that came and went years ago. Nope. Turns out that every kids everywhere is a Pokemon. But I’ve never seen the videos, played the games, and have no real concept of what it’s about.
So when I was the library in Oakland, debating whether to let Liam check out a Pokemon video, I posted a tweet about my dilemma, which plugged the following into my Facebook status:
One more thing: I find that in the case of my son (now 14, a… Read More 9th grader) these early passions have actually fueled other interests: at 4, he was flag crazy; then at 6, it was Pokemon; at 9, it was video games and literature on video games; at 12, it was crazy teen music (or whatever they call it). But through the years, the passion for Indian classical music and great literature have stayed and they shaped him. Today he’s on a quest to finish ALL the great works of English/American literature. We know where he’s going to go with that!!!! When he asks to read “Lady Chatterley’s Lover” is when I’ll protest.
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kyigit: @sjcobrien uhm, its important social currency for boys it seems but passes quickly. I caved within 48 hours1 day ago · Reply · View Tweet
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DailyMe: @sjcobrien he will soon be moving into the worlds of bakugan and ben 10.1 day ago · Reply · View Tweet
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ericajfinley: @sjcobrien I actually know people who play, and while it isn’t as big as it used to be, it’s still quite intense & you can win money!1 day ago · Reply · View Tweet
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MrsRoadshow: @sjcobrien Good luck on that. We were going to bypass that, too, when it moved through on the first round.1 day ago · Reply · View Tweet
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marywallace: @sjcobrien its round 3 of Pokemon Mania, they keep coming out with 150 new characters. I once knew 300, when my boys were little.1 day ago · Reply · View Tweet
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jeffpulver: @sjcobrien It fads away when the kids get older. There is no escape.1 day ago · Reply · View Tweet
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ironfroggy: @sjcobrien the only real ccg is mtg1 day ago · Reply · View Tweet
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bevbarnett: @sjcobrien pick your battles
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So the overall consensus seemed to be: Cave. And so I did. We rented the video. He watched last night at a sleepover, so I’ve not year got the full report. But I have a feeling that I’ve just taken the first step into a multi-year obsession with Pokemon.
One final thought on all of this: One challenge with the way these networks interact is that one question from me can start a conversation in several different places. I’ve talked to folks at times about this notion about how disaggregated conversation has become on the Web. I wonder what solutions people have found to this problem?




















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If I recall the editor of this blog grew up with Star Wars and GI Joe (of all things!!) I didn’t see that it made him violent or that he decided to march off to war. I think you are thinking too much!!!
Mother